tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30715046.post3365654700436774237..comments2023-08-06T04:18:59.482-07:00Comments on Trying for Baby...And Got Two!: Heatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07479095795525041519noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30715046.post-44077866757049137412009-01-31T21:30:00.000-08:002009-01-31T21:30:00.000-08:00H, I am thinking and praying for you and DH. I &l...H, I am thinking and praying for you and DH. I <3 you.Ash, Cat, Kyan and Nakiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05888086321231603572noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30715046.post-68311440746143173152009-01-25T00:58:00.000-08:002009-01-25T00:58:00.000-08:00Lighten up Chicken Little, aka Anon #3, it's not y...Lighten up Chicken Little, aka Anon #3, it's not your place to judge and your sarcasm makes you sound like an idiot.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30715046.post-11621744819920465082009-01-24T21:32:00.000-08:002009-01-24T21:32:00.000-08:00This sounds like the beginning stages of death thr...This sounds like the beginning stages of death throes for a marriage. You 2 have no respect for one another. It is easy to see that you do not as you are the writer, but you give enough examples that show he also takes you for granted. Let me see, three guesses. Nope, I only need one. You were one of those couples who lived together before you got married? Right? I bet I am. Living together is about disrespect for commitment and responsibility. Now that you have the girls it has come to the surface. Neither one of you feel the responsibility. You are angry that the other one won't step up but you won't do it yourself. You are both pouting about the other instead of FIXING YOURSELVES. Unless you both get individual counseling AS WELL AS couples counseling, these girls are doomed to coming from a dysfunctional home and probably a broken marriage. You are through the hardest part of babyhood and you are still nitpiking at one another and acting like teens with no other responsibilities. You put your job ahead of being a compassionate wife, mother, and creator of a safe place to fall for your family. It is your job to take care of their needs, make their home cozy and their meals nutritious. It is your job to put that ahead of your career. As for your husband, it is his job to provide so you can do these things. It is his job to put away his toys (creatures) and be a man who sacrfices for his families needs over his juvenile wants. He needs to be working 2 jobs instead of playing with snakes.<BR/><BR/>For these beautiful girls' sakes, please get your priorities straight, both of you, or we are going to be reading of divorce, separation, or a lifetime of anger on this blog.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30715046.post-80846039291394385822009-01-24T04:57:00.000-08:002009-01-24T04:57:00.000-08:00hang in there..remember tomorrow is a new day righ...hang in there..remember tomorrow is a new day right?....Hilaryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10534316401164334926noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30715046.post-40840339868009070232009-01-24T03:00:00.000-08:002009-01-24T03:00:00.000-08:00This sounds very much like a man thing! I know th...This sounds very much like a man thing! I know that saounds sexist and I dont mean it to be, its just that my DH is the same, not as bad by the sounds of it but he gets mad and ignores me when I get that tone and wont talk to me. I know you guys have no money but maybe you should have a day of just the two of you so you can sit and talk without any interuptions, any family who would be willing to have the girls for a day. You two need to talk to each other! Hope things get better.Nichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16275332224849930573noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30715046.post-29040054283994876672009-01-24T00:49:00.000-08:002009-01-24T00:49:00.000-08:00Sorry you are going through this. This may seem o...Sorry you are going through this. This may seem odd but as another twin mom with 9 month old boys something that has helped me was learning that the incidence of divorce is higher in families with multiples. Learning that was like a light bulb that has helped me step back and recognize the stress on our relationships that we handle that most people can't even grasp. You and your DH are amazing for working full time and caring for your girls. Not to mention handling the move on top of it all. Hang in there and you'll find a way to communicate accross the divide again and come out stronger for it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30715046.post-42022313718881723522009-01-23T16:51:00.000-08:002009-01-23T16:51:00.000-08:00I know you didn't ask.. but I think you guys need ...I know you didn't ask.. but I think you guys need to see a counselor. It can do a world of good. Do it for the girls. I can appreciate your frustration with him, but I can also "hear" that you don't see your role in it as being as significant as his in the issues that come up. <BR/><BR/>Yeah, yeah... opinions are like a**holes.. everyone's got one.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com